Do long distance relationships work?

We all agree that relationships are quite difficult to maintain and when your partner is living far away (other town,or country ) - things can really get difficult.I have seen many relationships breaking due to the distance between the partners. Many of my friends believe that if you know your partner well, distance does not matter...but is this true? Do things remain the same when your regular datings are replaced by phone calls, sms's and chats only? I have seen many couples split because they start to feel that they no longer share the thoughts, feelings and concerns....a few years down the line, they start realizing that distance is the culprit,but then you do not have much to do!

Recent studies have proved that in a long distant relationship the levels of intimacy, trust and commitment slowly starts deteriorating as partners slowly learn to develop a habit of living without one another. This might sound harsh, but this is one of the cruelest truths with which all of us will agree at some time or another. The need and desire to see one another and spend time together starts receding and this is when the problem begins!

In spite of all these, long distance relationships are on a rise-couples try every possible trick to keep the relationship alive.So...quickly, here are a few things which you can do to keep your relationship sweet.

Clarify all your expectations - Setting rules is good - you can stay focused and know when you are slipping. Your relationship shall also get a new hope and you will always look forward to something.

Trust - this is what shall keep your relationship alive. Be prepared for no face to face communication for months - this is where trust comes and believe me, sometimes, its really tough to keep your trust in your partner. If you are able to trust, you will surely sail smoothly through the rough patch.

Show your interest in one another always - through online dating, chats or even emails.

Last but not the least, be positive always and keep faith!

Got any more suggestions? Comments and feedbacks are welcome!

Is Your Boyfriend Cheating You?

Every person has his own definition of the word - cheating. Even in the dictionary the word cheating has been defined in many ways. One of the most common problems in relationships is infidelity. Are you one such victim? Here are some tips that can help you in understanding whether your boyfriend is cheating you or not!

·         Working late hours - If your boyfriend of late has started working late hours then there is a high chance that he might be cheating you. There are many people who work for late hours and it does not mean that all of them are cheating their girlfriends or spouse.  Apart from working late your boyfriend might avoid your call. He might also tell you that he is in office but in reality he might be somewhere else. When he says he is in office, you can drop in to his office for a surprise dinner. When boyfriends start cheating they also avoid being close to you.

·         Phone Call - When your boyfriend starts cheating he will keep his mobile phone in silent or in vibrating mode when you are around.  Even if a call comes he will try to go away from you to receive the call and also talk in whispers so that it is not heard. When you notice such type of change you can search and see if there is any suspicious number in his cell phone. Ensure that while you do it he is not around because your suspicion can make your relation worse.

·         Computers- Cheating boyfriend will spend a lot of time on computers chatting but will tell you that he is doing some online work. He will also become nervous and minimize the window when you walk near him.

Getting angry easily and spending more time in getting dressed can also be signs of a cheating boyfriend. We hope these tips will help in catching a cheater boyfriend.